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Digital Detox: A Necessity In Our World Today.

Simplicity is the peak of civilization. ~Jessie Sampter I have just finished discussing over the phone with a friend whom I noticed has been off the usual social media platforms for about a month now. He told me that switched off his data and took a much-deserved break from the barrage of the mostly garbage info we lap up from today’s digital world. It was a worthwhile decision he told me as he bought some Jeffrey Archer novels and began to rediscover his reading habit. Interestingly he didn’t miss much or let me say he felt he didn’t miss much rather he gained much. His wife had just returned from across the Atlantic with a new baby and time off social media was swapped for bonding with his growing family. He said unlike before they now stay in the bedroom chatting for hours without the incessant notification sounds that interrupt your flow during family discussions. Ultimately he is happy because he is loving up with his wife as they now share jokes and banter like twins. When I finally asked him to check the message I sent via WhatsApp he laughed and replied: “ Cmoni I’m not switching on my data even for you”. He gave me his wife’s number to forward the message to him. I commended him and told him that I also planned to embark on that route soon. As a matter of fact, I have already taken the kids shopping for books in preparation for our proposed digital detox. As a student at Cardiff University, I was very much addicted to social media. I was staying alone in a faraway land and had to connect with friends and family. In school, at home, on the bus or even while strolling on the streets, I would be chatting away on yahoo/blackberry messenger or Facebook. However, the primary aim of being in South Wales was never lost on me, and even if there was any chance of that, the weekly writings involved in my coursework never allowed it. Besides the voluminous texts for recommended reading, we were required to produce an average of 2–3000 words weekly. It may sound all too simple but when you attempt to present a 500-word article you will realize how tasking it can be. In media and communications research you rarely state an opinion without a reference. That much we discovered first hand when most of the class barely made the pass mark of 50 in our first assignment on a media report. The lecturer reminded us then that 50 was just average but was very kind in telling us that we had little to worry about as that was the first time and we should improve as the semester progresses. And we did, most of us scored over 70 the next time. My solution to social media addiction back then was digital detox. Whenever it was crunch time I deactivated and switched off all platforms. It worked like magic. While writing my dissertation, my laptop which had seen better days crashed after I had done about 14000 words. Cloud storage wasn’t common back then and even though I had some backup in my email I had clumsily forgotten to save my work for the last 2 days. By the time I fixed the laptop, I had to claw back over 5000 words. I was surprised at how I managed to do that seamlessly. Most of the words just flowed like water out of a spring. I believe I was only able to accomplish that because my mind didn’t have to contend with the clutter of social media garbage, it had been solely focused on the thesis. You see, we live in an age of abundant news, stories, clips, memes and what have you. The ease of sharing is also much quicker with tech companies developing new apps and platforms by the second. Lapping up all we come across on our digital appliances is time-consuming and sometimes burdening, but the good news is that nobody is forced to do that. Except it is part of your job which of course earns you a living. Even at that, taking a break is very much within your control. From being better organized to having more time to spend on more important things like family, work, studies, and spirituality, the benefits of a digital detox will surprise you and you could end up living as you did in the last millennium without any deficit. I am now more determined to proceed and have just read a few tips here. You can also read this article on how to do a digital detox.

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Finding some soul food in Nigeria

“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbour. Catch the trade winds in your sails” ~ H. Jackson Brown Jnr   There is a common but erroneous belief among many Nigerians that relaxation is for the wealthy. A large percentage of our working population toil throughout the year without a break. And when some of the privileged ones take a break or vacation it is often used for shopping to display affluence and bragging rights. It is a little wonder then that we have a very low life expectancy at 53. Some argue that it would be complacent to rest on your oars when there are still mouths to be fed, fees to be paid and blocks to mould. However, a friend had always queried that since human beings are born into the struggle of life until six feet what harm will it cause to pause occasionally and stretch those weary feet? With the hustle and bustle of an increasingly restless and irritable populace trying to eke out a living under the scorching sun, Nigeria can hardly be described as your ideal environment for recreation. Starting from the blaring horns to the generator noise down to the church and mosque loudspeakers it is indeed a sweaty task to find some time to relax in the real sense of the word. But the truth is that it doesn’t have to be so. It is said that if you create time then time will be available. Better put by acclaimed writer Anne Lammot: “We don’t find time for what matters, we make time-and the priorities we set, define our destiny”. Even though tranquillity is a scarce commodity in Nigeria we can at the very least create for ourselves if we really desire to do so. Every now and then take some time out and embark on a digital detox to reduce the huge but mostly unnecessary consumption of media materials. Pick up a novel or two and lock yourself in, shut down all communications and don’t let yourself out till you close the last page. Take a break from the usual evening hangouts and go to the cinema with a loved one. Work out in the night and take a long hot bath. Then sit out with a bottle of wine, marvel at the beauty of the night. Try counting the stars while listening to some serenade. Go for a weekend getaway in a rural area where there is little or no network. Fall in love with the fresh air and natural surroundings devoid of urban pollution. Savour the lush greenery, walk to the stream and watch the tadpoles. Kick up some clay, stop by an anthill and check our the organisational behaviour of the wonderful colony. There are a million other cheap ways to carve out some tranquil time here. Try one today and you’ll be glad you did because most of the fears you nurse are unreal. Your business will not collapse. No matter how much you hug your money it will never hug you back. But the good thing is that money is always there to be made if we do the right thing. That opportunity you fear could pass you by is only one among many. Time will keep ticking away and the world will not stop whether you are at work or chilling. As a matter of fact, you will find out that you missed nothing but rather gained much because you would have enriched your soul and refreshed the very being that will be better poised to attain greater heights. So take some time of the clutter and relax. A clear mind is a healthy asset and your most productive tool.

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