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A Trip To Forever

  Today is our third wedding anniversary. I looked at Pam, my adorable husband, and I couldn’t help but chuckle when I recounted how we met; how Pam and his five friends made the three-week orientation camp before the mandatory one-year National Youth Service (NYSC) scheme a blissful experience for me. A moment laden with love, trust, understanding, and care passed as he smiled at me. I relaxed as a collage of scenes from the bus trip that happened 5 years earlier reeled through my mind. The 10-seater jalopy bus came to a halt abruptly and I just couldn’t wait to jump out of the bus. It was obvious that I was not the only person eager to see the exhausting trip come to an end. The door was barely opened before we all scampered to leave the stuffy bus—no thanks to the infamous Katsina heat. Our haste was partly because the trip was not a pleasant one, we were all fagged out, and it was our first time stepping our tired feet in Katsina State. I took in sight of the place where I would be spending the next three weeks, and probably eleven months if I did not seek to be relocated out of the state. The next three weeks would greatly influence that decision. I had no idea what was waiting for me, but I know fun should top the list based on stories I have heard from my friend that had attended the three-week orientation camp. “So you are a corps member, too?” The chubby one who looked overfed and kept chattering in the bus as if he was a talking machine asked with eyes as wide as a saucer. He was visibly shocked to discover that I was a prospective corps member like him and his friends and schoolmates who had made life miserable for me during the supposed 6-hours trip which turned out to be 9 hours for several unpleasant reasons. “Of course, I am” I replied with a smile plastered on my tired face. “See how you just kept quiet during the trip and we all thought you had not even gone to school, and now we know that you are a graduate too” The one with the clean-shaven pate shot at me. “What would you have done differently?” I shot back, clearly enjoying the moment. “We would have regarded you as one and not treat you like an unschooled person like we did back in the bus?” He chided looking remorseful. “Okay, our apologies for the fight,” the light-complexioned one whose face was way lighter than his knuckles chipped in. “Well, the trip is over now and we can now face what is before us,” I told them. “I told you to leave her alone, but you guys won’t listen to me,” the strikingly handsome one who stood on 6-feet plus with a very nice haircut and sideburns said with a heart-melting smile spread on his face. Of course, he had tried several times to defend me during the trip. It was a journey filled with adventures right from the park of Plateau Riders where we—young men and women eager to serve the nation— all boarded the vehicle to Katsina State. Expectedly, eight out of the ten passengers were prospective corps members. Except for the two other passengers who sat in front, oblivious of the drama that happened in the bus or they didn’t just care. We were all expected to book for the trip a day before to allow the management to plan based on the number of those that had booked. I had booked too, but was late to the park, and so, I missed the first bus which got filled up before the usual time because NYSC camps across the country were opened that day. There was an unusual flurry at the park that morning. The park was not used to having two buses for long-distant trips; there was no other bus available when the first one was filled up. The management had to source for a miserable-looking jalopy to embark on the second trip. I knew we were in trouble as soon as I set my eyes on the bus, but I consoled myself with the Nigerian parlance, “Don’t mind the body, but mind the engine”. The engine turned out to be worse than the body when we set out for the 6-hour trip. It ended up being a 9-hour trip because of the incessant stop-and-fix-the car we had on the way. The stopping started barely 30 minutes into the journey and it continued until we reached our destination. The first incidence was when we were told to step out of the bus for few minutes so that some of our luggage would be placed under the seats since we all came with lots of bags, ready for the three-week stay. I was the first in the bus and chose a place close to the window since I usually have motion sickness on long trips and needed the breeze from the window to help in alleviating my fear. I docilely stepped out and came back to sit down when we were told to do so but found the dark-knuckled guy on my seat. “Please, this is my seat,” I said as calmly as I could. He ignored me as if I was invisible. I repeated my plea trying hard to keep a tight rein on my temper that was already threatening to explode. He looked at me slowly from my feet to my head and back again and in a condescending voice said, “You better go and get another seat because I am not leaving this seat, and nobody will make me to.” Just then, my younger brother who had come to the park with me came by the window and told the guy to leave the seat or else have him to deal with. His five friends waded in and tried to intimidate my brother and

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My Forever Crush by Roselyn Sho-Olajide.

It was a Saturday, with the sweltering sun mercilessly unleashing its fury. The unbearable heat made me sit on the balcony of our duplex to savour the pages of Kristin Hannah’s Nightingale while I sip a bottle of cold Coke. Our house, like many others in my neigbourhood, was a beautiful duplex shaded by a fence and two white gates flanked by tiles walls. The worth of our gates and fence would comfortably build an apartment in the slums of Jos. The floor of the compound was covered with interlocks and a small part beside the house had rose and hibiscus flowers. My elevated position on the balcony gave me a view of what was going on outside our gate and even passersby — which were usually few. As if prodded by a phantom finger, I raised my head from the book I was engrossed in time to see a lone figure walked past our gate. I paused for a few seconds to really drink in the sight of what I just saw. It stunned me in the happiest of ways that after several years, I had just set my eyes on him. No, it couldn’t be him. Of course, the face looked familiar. Not just the face, but his slow gait, too. I would have spotted him even in the dark. Why wouldn’t I? Not when I had crushed on him until he graduated from school. It took me several months after he left before I finally got over him. Let me start from the beginning so that you will have a clearer picture of it all… We were staying in Abuja before my father decided to move his business to Jos. I was transferred from the secondary school I was attending back then in Abuja to another school in Jos — a boarding. On my first day in school, during the assembly, the head prefect came up to pass announcement, and that was it. I discovered within the split second it took to lift my little finger that I was smitten. It was not about his looks. He wouldn’t be called handsome by all standards. What struck me was his diction, the fact that he had an amazing command of the English Language that sent my mind reeling in all directions. Just a sentence from him and I knew he was intelligent and his words sounded like music to my ears. You can call it crush, if you like, but right from that day, I saw Datong in my dreams and on the pages of the books I read. I would deliberately position myself where he will take notice of me. I guess he had seen me several times. One day, I sighted him coming several steps from where I was standing and deliberately plotted it in a way that the books I was holding fell right in his front. He proved to be not only intelligent, but chivalrous. He stooped to help me pick every book, even though he was the head prefect, while I was merely a Senior Secondary (SS) 1 student. “Oh, dear! I’m sorry,” he said as he helped me pick my books that were strewn on the ground. “Thank you, senior,” I said smiling and secretly enjoying the moment of having him that close. So close that I caught a whiff of the chocolate-like fragrance of the cologne he had on him. “Are you a new student?” he inquired. “Yes. I resumed last Monday,” I replied. Oh…That was a week ago. From which school? “Madonna Secondary School, Abuja.” “That’s good. You should be with the other students having breakfast and not to be seen loitering.” “I am not hungry,” I lied smoothly. The truth was, I was hungry, but I knew he would be around there and needed just to have an encounter with him. I was hoping it would make him come close to me and in my childish mind, imagined he would ask me out and we will live happily ever. Don’t blame me; it was too much romance novels at work. “What’s your name? “Tata,” I replied.” “Funny name. Tata, a week is long enough for you to know that it’s against the school rule for you to be anywhere, but the dining hall at this time of the day even when you are not hungry,” he admonished in a matter-of-fact tone. What he didn’t know was that I had taken the bull by the horn and delayed going for breakfast just so this scene will play out the way it was playing at that moment. “I’m sorry, senior,” I said as I hugged my books and made my way to the dining hall to eat my breakfast of tea, bread, and boiled egg. A few days after that first encounter, I tried to get him to notice me again. It was a labour day — a day when general cleaning was done in the school — and my class was assigned to weed the school garden. We were busy at work when I noticed senior Datong chatting heartily with two other prefects not too far from where we were working. I decided to play a fast one. My acting skills came to the fore, and I feigned fainting. I laid still while my classmates, Datong, and the other perfect rushed to where I laid on the lawn. They immediately took me to the school clinic to be administered first aid. It was apparently my lucky day — Datong followed me to the clinic! At least I had him close for some minutes before I “was revived” and was later discharged from the school clinic. As the days flew by, l saw little Datong. He was preparing for his final exams — West African Examination Council (WAEC) — and was knee-deep in his studies. Barely a month after I resumed, WAEC was over and he had left. I was heartbroken when he handed over to an acting senior prefect and had graduated. I couldn’t believe that I have just seen Datong in my

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